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For military & veterans

Sexual rehabilitation for military and veterans

A space to restore closeness and trust in yourself and your body after what you have been through — confidentially, with respect and without judgment.

Who it's for

Who this support is for

Military and veterans

You serve or have served — and want to care for closeness, your body and relationships alongside every other part of recovery.

Partners and loved ones

Being close to someone who has lived through trauma is not easy. We work with couples and with loved ones too.

Professionals

For psychologists, doctors and social workers supporting the military — materials and expert consultations.

The essence

What sexual rehabilitation means

War affects not only the body but also closeness, trust and relationships. Sexual rehabilitation is a gradual restoration of connection with yourself and others, at your own pace, with a specialist's support.

A detailed description is in progress

The full text about the approach, formats of work and what to expect is being prepared by the area's expert. It will appear here soon.

How we work

Our principles

Confidential

What you share stays between you and the specialist. You can reach out anonymously.

Without judgment

There are no "right" or "wrong" reactions of the body and feelings. We don’t judge — we are here with you.

At your pace

You decide what to talk about and when. No pressure and no forced assignments.

Evidence-based

We rely on current research and international standards, not on myths.

Materials

What to read

Materials are in progress

Materials for military personnel, veterans and their loved ones will appear in the library.

Questions

Frequently asked questions

Questions and answers are in progress

Frequently asked questions collected by the expert will appear here later. Have your own — write to us.

Ready to talk?

Write to us — we'll suggest a format and help you figure out where to start. Anonymously, if you prefer.

Need urgent help right now?

Where to turn

Have a request or an idea for working together?

Write to us if you would like to request a training, propose a partnership, join an event or ask a practical question.

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